"Not to people like us": hidden abuse in upscale marriages

Piercing the veil of silence

This doesn't happen to people like us

Why do women stay in abusive marriages

Getting: "He was so sexy, so powerful, he swept me off my feet"

Staying the course: "I made my bed"

Going public and getting going: "I'm outta here"

The men: arrogance and insecurity, grandiosity and self-doubt

What about the children

Who can help?: therapeutic interventions

The double-edged sword: how family, friends, and professionals can make matters worse

Life goes on.