2. The problem: The conventional saying "attitude is everything" is not everything
3. The attitude that is everything: The Smooth River
5.Taking the hit: adapting to the new realities
6. Stepping into the breach to manage care and life
7. Choosing your doctor carefully
8. The medical plan: limited options
9. The life plan: finding silver linings everywhere
10. Managing pain and other symptoms: the rotation of pill bottles
11. Peering over the edge: hear-tohearts
12. Keeping your eye on the medical road and both hadns on the wheel
13. Preparing for the end
14. Discovering spiritual beauty within the storm
15. Dealing with problems that will come
16. Beyond the protocols (after two chemos failed)
17. Making our home safe and patient-friendly
18. Room 413: our final home
20. Making the funeral, burial and bereavement holy
21. Carrying out Marcia's legacy
Appendix 1: Our log (condensed)
Appendex 2: Marcia's booklist
