Mate: become the man women want

Get Your Head Straight

Develop Attractive Traits

Display Attractive Proofs

Go Where The Women Are

Take Action.

The five principles of mating success

The five-step process to mating success

Step one: Get your head straight. Build self-confidence ; Understand what it's like to be a woman ; Clarify your mating goals and ethics

Step two: Develop attractive traits. Understand what women want

and why ;

Get in shape (the physical health trait) ; Get happy (the mental health trait) ; Smarten up (the intelligence trait) ; Get your life together (the willpower trait) ; The tender defender (the agreeableness and assertiveness traits)

Step three: Display attractive proofs. Show them what you're working with (signaling theory) ; The power of popularity and prestige (social proof) ; How rich do you need to be? (material proof) ; Stylin' and profilin' (aesthetic proof) ; Show her how you feel (romantic proof)

Step four: Go where the women are. Find the right mating markets ; Beggars must be choosers (mate preferences) ; Meeting the women you want

Step five: Take action. Talking to women ; Dating women ; Having sex ; Create your mating plan and go forth

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